Grief

Grief

Grief: Needing to recreate meaning when our understanding of life’s meaning is smashed.   It is the longing to touch back into what is gone.  It’s feeling confused and empty, needing to re-orient to our lives now characterized by the loss.  Grief...
The Need to Forgive

The Need to Forgive

Forgiveness.  There is a lot of talk about the need to forgive.  I have a belief about this. You don’t necessarily need to forgive someone who perpetrated abuse or hurt you.  We need to forgive ourselves for how we have used that abuse or pain to continue to...